I can’t get over this

I was invited to a Halloween party by a friend. The person who was having the Halloween party was someone who we had worked with four years ago.

She had a two week fling with the father of my child. We all used to work together FOUR years ago. Work is where I’m met the father of my child. Since then I hadn’t had any contact with the girl who was having the party. I have seen her on social media. She’s married. Looks very happy. I didn’t think that she was going to bring anything from the past up.

As I’m at the party I noticed that she is being passive aggressive with me asking me if I’m jealous of her husband and was calling me delusional for reasons unknown. She did tell me she was really happy for me that I have a child. She started asking a lot of questions about the father of my child. I didn’t think anything of it.

I was waiting for the bathroom by myself and it was full so she came to get me and was like come up to my bedroom you can use the bathroom no problem. I didn’t think anything of it and I was like OK. I don’t know why I did this. I use the bathroom in her master bedroom and as soon as I come out she started harassing me about the father of my child asking me questions about him telling me that they didn’t have sex but they had a thing for two weeks and she hoped that I wasn’t mad at her. This was four years ago. I explained to her that I wasn’t even thinking about any of this and she has nothing to worry about. I kept trying to change the conversation and go back downstairs but she just wanted to keep talking about the father of my child. She kind of put her hand on me and pushed me a little bit and I didn’t think anything of it.

 now that I remember I did speak to her husband at the party and tell him how I knew his wife which was work and he said that she still brings up working there up a lot.

As I’m leaving the party she gets upset and asked me why she then proceeds to say “your babysitter can’t watch your child anymore? Fuck the child am I right?” She was on a lot of drugs and she kept asking people for drugs throughout the party.

She asked me if that comment made it weird and awkward I told her yes and then she mimicked me. I then proceeded to tell her you talked about the father of my child a lot and it made me uncomfortable. And while I was leaving at the front door she started pushing me. I had nothing to say to her except for relax and I just walked out of the door.

I can’t stop thinking about this it really upset me that someone would ever say something about my child.