Has anyone ever dealt with a man who doesn’t wipe his ass?

Warning: I cuss a lot

I had heard stories from other women online about men doing this and I thought it was rare but now I’m starting to think it’s not so rare. I have heard stories about women hooking up with men and the man leaving a shit streak on the bed sheets after sex. It actually happened to me, not on the bed sheets or if It did I blocked that shit out because I couldn’t handle it, Apparently there are a lot of these out there! And it actually happened to me!

I always thought I would freak out and immediately call it out if I dated a grown ass adult that didn’t know how to properly wipe their own ass but then when my ex got comfortable around me.. all the sudden there were shit streaks on the toilet… not just a little… it was a lot… everytime he’d use it and it it was like he was shitting on the toilet seat and smearing it and I was so fucking appalled that I legitimately did not know what to say or do, so I took time to mentally prepare myself for what to say and I couldn’t even bring myself to say it. I didn’t know HOW to say it… because how are you a grown ass man that doesn’t properly wipe their ass? absolutely not. I wanted to cry, I was mad, and I wanted throw up. I was repulsed that I had been touching and sleeping with a man who had a shit ass! Needless to say he was dumped very.. very fast

The epitome of foul ass laziness…and I know it was laziness because this wasn’t happening at first. When I tell y’all I never lost attraction to a man so fast in my entire life. I just told him I wanted to break up because of his bad hygiene and this man really told me he’d “do better.” As if.. he was a five year old getting in trouble. No sir you do not get a chance to “do better.” About wiping your fucking ass. Oh my GOD.

I just don’t understand… how you can be okay with having shit in your ass and second of all how does that not cause some serious discomfort? Did their mothers not teach them that it wasn’t okay to have shit in their ass? And are some women just okay with this? Because after I dumped him he got a new girlfriend almost immediately and I know damn well she saw that shitty toilet seat too but I guess chose to go blind or something because they stayed together for a while. Not me, no ma’am. I’m fucking traumatized. He tried to rub it in my face that he had a new girlfriend and I just hoped she was real nice so she could keep him away from me.

I had never been more relieved to get a man away from me in my entire life. And I’m very glad for my current partners good hygiene and thankful to my other ex’s for not doing that shit to me.

I think about this sometimes and just get grossed out ALL OVER again. I still cannot believe this.