Feeling meh

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for about a year now with no luck. It’s hard because one person tells you it’ll happen just don’t over think it. Another tells you that you have to be thinking about it to make it happen. It gets frustrating… especially when it’s coming from friends and family that have already had children of their own. I know one year is not very long and I know it might be selfish to think that’s a long time considering those that have struggled with way more. I’m just so ready to grow our family. I always ask myself “am I overthinking it?” “Do I need to try harder” “what am I doing wrong” I already went to see if all my parts are working the way they’re supposed to and everything looks healthy…. Sorry y’all this was just a much needed rant.