How do i know i finished? 😲

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Okay so i watched a pretty basic podcast by remi cruz and alisha marie and it was the question.. they answer "you will know" which doesnt really answer the question.. so im just gonna ask in your personal experience. How did it physically felt for you?

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Lets see if we can improve on the “you will know” answer.
If you have not done so yet, wash your hands, close your door, get a mirror and look at your own genitals. Google “female anatomy diagram”, then use your fingers to open your vulva (the parts you can see) to open your lips and find all the parts from the diagram on your own body. The most important part to find is your clitoris. You can even stick your finger inside your vagina (the “pipe” inside your body. You can feel how warm and wet it is, the ridges that allows it to stretch out to accept and penis or a toy, and allows a baby to come out during child birth. Right at the top you may be able to feel your cervix, sticking out inside your vagina. It feels like the tip of your nose, but with a little dimple in the middle. This is where the hole is that allows sperm inside, menstrual flow, mucus (discharge) and a baby out during child birth. Close to your period it may be closer to your vaginal entrance and it feels stiff like the tip of your nose. Close to ovulation it may be higher up in your vagina and it feels soft and squishy like your lips
The easiest way to figure out how you orgasm and what is feels like is through masturbation. The fastest was to masturbate to an orgasm is by concentrating on your clitoris. The role of your clitoris and vagina are different. Your vagina is mainly for making and delivering babies (reproduction). It is not very sensitive inside. The most sensitivity is right around the opening. Your clitoris is for pleasure. It serves no other purpose. It is a woman’s equivalent to a male penis, except that you do not pee or ejaculate through it, and what you can see is just the tip of your clitoris. The massive part of your clitoris is inside your body where you cannot see it.
Your clitoris may be very sensitive in the beginning. You can rub, tap, squeeze, and grind around it and over the hood. You can use a finger tip, a finger, fingers, the palm of your hand or even your whole hand over the area.As you get more aroused, you can go harder and faster, and closer or on your clitoris.
As you stimulate yourself, tension and energy will build up in your body and brain.Your vulva will swell and open up, your vagina will open up and get wet inside. Keep on concentrating on what feels good, and try to make it feel even better. You may reach a phase of sexual arousal that does not feel like you are getting more pleasure. This is called the plateau phase. Just keep on going. At some stage the tension and energy that built up will overwhelm your body and brain, and release. This is your orgasm. Not all orgasms are the same. Some are massive earth quakes, some are just light tremor. In general it will start as a sparkling in your clitoris or heat deep inside in your uterus. Waves of pleasure and contractions will ripple out from your genitals. You may arch, shake and clutch, and you may make sounds (vocalizations). A woman’s orgasm lasts longer than a man’s, often 10 seconds or more. In order to experience an orgasm, you must be willing to surrender control over your body and let your orgasm take over..
There are various ways to improve the quality of your orgasms. There are “edging” and/or multiple orgasms, or you may find having something like a toy, fingers, or penis inside your vagina improving it. You may find a certain position better, or using a toy or water easier. The only way to figure out how your body works is to take the time to explore and experiment. If you do not orgasm the first time you try, just stop and try again another time. It is perfectly normal to take a while to discover the secret to your own pleasure.
After an orgasm you should feel happy, satisfied, relaxed, and even glowing and/or sleepy. Arousal is mostly a process of absorbing energy and tension. An orgasm is releasing that energy and tension. Once you have figured out how to orgasm by yourself, you have a much better basis to learn how to orgasm with a partner. Unless you are very lucky, there are some techniques you will have to learn to orgasm with a partner. These techniques are mostly there to get the necessary stimulation to your clitoris.

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Yes. You will know. It’s like knowing whether or not you’ve been punched in the face. No mistaking it for anything else

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It's really that simple. You'll know.

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If you’re not sure, you didn’t orgasm. My first orgasm was when I got my first vibrator after 5 years of sex. I was blown away!

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You’ll know. It’s different from person to person. Orgasm yourself and then you’ll know what you’re looking for

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Yes. As others have said you will know. If you’re doubting, you haven't had one

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I disagree! Everyone is different and you may not know!! I didn't and I spent over 10 years being confused so I always hated this answer. I know now that I had been having small orgasms for all that time as my clitoral orgasms are just small. However, I have very intense vaginal orgasm to make up for it, but didn't know that until someone did that to me with their fingers! Don't worry, just enjoy it and keep experimenting.

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