Am I asking for too much?

So I’m 30 and my husband is 35, we have three kids and I have been in my feelings lately. My husband is always at work 24/7 and has not taken a day off in 5 month… I understand that we have a lot on our plate and he’s the sole provider since I’m in school and taking care of the kids at home. I’m just upset because we never go out as a family, I have expressed to him many times that our children need him and that I need him too. He still just comes home gets on his phone and sleeps. Our financial situation is good and I was with him through thick and thin… I sometimes wish that he could plan something or even go out on a date… we never do that and it hurts… I am always either doing homework or with the kids, cooking and cleaning… and running all the errands 💔tbh I never expected my life to be like this… He forgets our anniversary and birthdays… even when I reminded him.. he promised to do something together and he never did… I just wanted to vent because I can’t say this to anyone…

Thank you for commenting ♥️ I really appreciate the kind words… we both grew up in poverty, I didn’t have much and I understand he wants a better life for our kids but I think he isn’t understanding how to weigh work and family correctly… It’s hard sometimes because he will come home get on his phone and just sleep💔 he never helps me with the kids and it’s so hard with school also.. I’m full time which is hectic… I have talked to him about it so much and we just argued about it today… he said that this is what life with him looks like… He also said I need to be more grateful for everything I have…