My 1st pregnancy vs this 2nd one

This 2nd pregnancy has been giving me h*ll ever since I had found out I was pregnant. I’m now 30 weeks almost 31 basically & in my first trimester I had HG badly so bad that I lost over 20lbs, the spitting & mucus in my nose & throat was horrible. But I’m so happy the HG stopped in my 2nd trimester. I will say eating this pregnancy I can’t really eat & enjoy anything or I do feel sick but not like vomiting sick anymore just nauseous I need to lay down sick. I’ve been eating mostly bland foods, & healthy snacks & junk food too. & I’ve had insomnia basically my whole pregnancy 🙄. One of the things in my 3rd trimester that is driving me crazy is these swollen red labias I now have that get irritated 😒😒😒 My first pregnancy was much smoother but of course I do know every pregnancy is different but d*mn .. I can’t see my vagina & it has to be giving me problems too. *****TMI**** >>>> I’ve had discharge my entire pregnancy too which is the same as my first & I still hate that very much & also having inflamed labias that doesn’t help it bc I keep a pad or panty liner on & some times that irritates them 😒😒 All in all I’m just here to say I’m ready & praying to have a safe & smooth delivery. & YES I’m so tired of being pregnant. & don’t tell me I can’t or shouldn’t complain bc yes I can! 😒