Poly and single as a couple

Sadie

Hi we are a male and female couple who are interested in having a girlfriend or multiple girlfriends and maybe even eventually live together and get married however it is extremely difficult to find any woman interested in dating us and being serious about it or even just fwb but we don’t know what to do because we really want to open our relationship to other people. Does anyone have any tips on picking up women as a poly/open couple or dating apps that actually work! We are obviously open and let people know what we’re looking for but no one is really interested and if they are they’re too far for right now! We’re totally open to long distance however we don’t have the money or time to go see someone in a different state or country unless it’s New Jersey or New York! I drive but also not everyone drives so it’s difficult unfortunately! How do you find someone for you and your spouse? Help please we’re also 25 f and 26 m!