Do you ever do this?

Question

I told my friends that I sometimes schedule doctors/dentist/vision/counseling appointments for my boyfriend just to help him out. He works night shit and it’s sometimes easier if I just do it. He does have social anxiety but he could call if he needed to. He also goes to these appointments by himself. My friends think that’s weird that I sometimes do this for him and it got me wondering if others do it too?

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I don't think it's weird. It's helping out your partner. Especially if he can and does do it on his own sometimes

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Would he do it for you too? If he would, then I don't see a problem with this type of interdependence. If you're doing it for him because he's dependent on you for it for no good reason then I would find that a little odd for an adult man. ￼￼

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I’ve done it before because my husband works weird hours.

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Some men are just useless when it comes to planning and actually getting things done. Mine is very practical, if something needs fixing, he is my man. I’m better at the admin stuff, I know he appreciates my help and most of the time I find it more stressful reminding him to do it than just doing it myself 😂 Whatever works!

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I don’t think it’s weird. 2023 was really hard for me health wise and while in the midst of dealing with one issue another unexpectedly popped up. I had my sister call to schedule one appointment and my husband call to schedule another. I just couldn’t handle it along with everything else going on. I would do the same for them if they needed me to.
Whenever possible though, I try to schedule online or in person to avoid that. 😅

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I don’t exactly find it weird. But I’ve never done it for my partner, and I wouldn’t feel comfortable if he did it for me

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Ive never done this for my husband of 13+ years, but I dont find it weird at all.

Do you ever do this?

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