My in laws are huge attention seekers. Not my MIL and FIL. They're always doing shit for attention or to get something from my husband. His parents aren't together and his dad walked out when he was 10 and came back into his life when he was 16. My in laws are also really rude to me and talk about my weight. His father has told me I need to lose the baby weight before his son gets wondering eyes.

Something really bizarre happened. I found out something from my husband's childhood that he never told me. He told his dad at one point after he came back in his life. I know about it now because his dad has made this narrative that he saved his son from something bad happening to him. He walked in on a traumatic event going on with my husband, beat up the abuser and dragged him to the police station. This isn't possible because when I found out and asked my husband what others were talking about he told me about it. But he said what his dad is saying isn't true because not only was his dad not there. He was in a completely different state than both of his parents. None of them were there. Plus this happened when he was 14 and as I stated, his dad left at 10 and didn't come back until he was 16.

My husband reached out to his dad and his dad for real tried to gaslight my husband that he didn't remember which she he was that something traumatic happened. To the point my husband had to go looking online for court documents because he knew when this crime was reported and when he found court documents they dated back to 2013. The year he was 14. What my husband thinks happened after talking to people is his dad was trying to impress his now girlfriend by making himself out to be a super dad and lied and now his dad is believing his own lie and trying it make my husband question his own trauma. I swear my in laws are just like this and insane! How do you reason with crazy?