Does your boyfriend comment on your body?

My bf often says that he sees girls with bigger bums than me and that I need to make it bigger can’t tell if it’s a joke but he says stuff like I need a big booty girl (my bum is quite big) I’m confused is this a playful comment?

I’m not that offended just confused my friend says her bf makes comments like this too

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I wouldn’t stand for my partner comparing me to other women , that’s for sure . He may mean it playfully & you don’t seem offended by it . My husband doesn’t say i need a bigger/smaller anything . He does say things like “ look at those curves , my baby is fine “ and things of the likes 🤷🏾‍♀️

Mr

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My partner does not ever compare my body to other women’s bodies. If he makes a comment about my body, it is ALWAYS complimentary. I never have to worry if he meant it to be a compliment or insult.

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Mine would NEVER compare me to another woman. Period. No exceptions. He only ever tells me how much he loves me the way I am, loves my body and thinks it’s perfect to him, etc. I wouldn’t ever tolerate anything less.

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Yuck. So unnecessary. My husband would neverrrrrrr. The only comments he's ever made towards my body are that it's perfect & he loves it. He'd never tell me that I need to change anything about it. He did let me get a BBL a few years ago but it was because I wanted it, a "gift" to myself for being done having kids. Lol 😁

✩M

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In 12 years, my husband has NEVER compared my body to someone else's or made a derogatory statement about it. He only ever has nice things to say. Your boyfriend and your friends's boyfriend are immature and disrespectful.

Ve

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This is mine and my husband's 15th year together and he has never

Ta

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Nope. Only compliments.

M

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My husband asked me once why don’t I get tattoos behind my thighs like this girls we saw he said it would look nice on me I didn’t take it to well I got upset and we argued does that sound bad ?? What would you do ?

Lo

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My fiancé never makes comparisons or insults about my body, even jokingly. The only comments he ever makes is how much he loves & appreciates every inch of it as it is.