My husband and I are having a tough time deciding whether or not we should have a fourth baby. Currently we have a 14,10 & 5 year olds. We make enough money, but would need to change some physical aspects of our life. Upgrade our truck, camper and make a room in the basement for our oldest. All of these changes are very possible. Our oldest says she would love the larger space in the basement- she’s currently in a 9x9 bedroom.

All of this being said… we know that it would be more challenging to have another, but we can’t commit to not having one. We are 33 & 35

Any advice? Would you stick with the easier option of maintaining what we have or re- complicate things because there’s a reason we can’t stop thinking about number 4?

Help please!!!

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