Latent Labor for 4 days now 😞

Ch

Second time mom here, I’m 36 weeks and for the last 4 days I’ve been experiencing latent/early labor. I have cramps,slight contractions,pelvic pain and pressure with severe back pain and feel so tired. I never experienced this with my first so this is new to me. I’m curious if anyone else has been through this and how long were you in this labor before the real deal kicked in? I’m so over it 😭