How would you feel?

My boyfriend has been getting on my nerves lately. This morning, when I left his house I ignored him and didn’t say anything because he had spoken to me crazy. I decided to not be mad anymore, and speak to him because that’s what people in relationships do, they get over things. So I messaged him first and he started speaking to me crazy like “ oh yeah you’re messaging me first because you know you’re wrong!” When that’s not the fact why I messaged him… then I went to his house an hour away and mentioned I was hungry when I got there.. he tells me he’s not my f’ing dad and doesn’t need to feed me. He also says f’ you, because this morning I ignored him when I left. He tells me to get the f out of his house. I’m leaving, but I feel like he’s gaslighting me into thinking I’m in the wrong when I know he is. But he truly feels like he’s in the right, although he said the f word at me.