Is this normal, or am I a prude?

I’ve been dating this guy for almost 10 years, and sex in the beginning was great! It was always fun and never felt like a “chore” for lack of a better term. The more time went on, the more he wanted out of sex. For instance, one of the things he LOVES to do is bring up my sexual history in the middle of sex because it turns him on; Or, he will bring up my friends that he’d like to see me hook up with in the middle of sex.

Personally, I’m not into it at all. If anything, it makes the sex less pleasurable for me. Before anybody says “if you’re not comfortable then leave”, I wanted to come on here and share to see if this kind of thing is normal during sex in a relationship, or if I’m a prude.

I can’t help but feel prudish and would like some feedback on this. Thank you ladies 💞