Vaginal Dryness but still can get wet?

Recently I’ve been experiencing a lot more issues with my vagina, it goes from being fine and producing the normal amount and type of discharge for months, to it being extremely itchy, more discharge (looks like a yeast infection), and feeling uncomfortable no matter what underwear I am wearing. The discharge is usually a two day thing and goes away, the consistency looks like that of yeast infections but i know it isn’t because i’ve had those before. I also am experiencing slight spotting (whether or not i’m having sex) every time i use the bathroom and wipe, I am also experience discomfort after sex.

More recently, i’ve been experiencing spotting, more discharge, a little bit of an odor, discomfort while peeing and after sex, and my vuvla is quite literally peeling from how dry it’s getting, even when I put moisturizer on. The weird thing is that when I am aroused, I still get wet like normal, so I am questioning whether it even is dryness.

I am tested and as is my partner, we are both clear of STIs. Unfortunately going to a gynecologist is not really at reach for me right now so any advice tips or input is greatly valued!!