So these are some things that my boyfriend and I are constantly arguing about and we both feel like each other are wrong .. so I don’t have sex with my boyfriend as much as he wants . He wants it either everyday or mutilple rounds (he says in the morning when he wakes up , middle of the day and at night) and he’s not a one round guy so after we get done doing it he has to go watch porn . So he’s very disrespectful. Controlling . Manipulative . Don’t clean up around the house . Make things up and believe it . And etc .. so this is something I’m legit dealing with DAILY . I tell him he treats me bad I’m not going to be horny as much as him . So say Monday and Tuesday we have sex 1 round each of them days . But Wednesday we don’t . On Thursday morning when he wakes up he’ll be pissed off , disrespectful telling me I don’t fuck him enough . . There was a time where I literally made him cum 3 times one day . He’ll tell me “I looked out for him I don’t have to do it tomorrow” but we will end up doing it tomorrow. But not the next day after and he’ll be mad . He thinks I’m having sex with other people (never had sex with anyone our whole 7 years being together) and he’ll just call me whores, sluts etc . So then he’ll tell me he don’t wanna make me feel like I have to fuck Jim everyday but after reading this wouldnt you feel like you have to fuck him everyday in order for him to not wake up made and disrespectful??? Then he turns around and say I’m making him seem like a creep . Another argument is like he’s the type that if you keep a secret like winning the lottery and wanting to surprise him with a house then he’s going to think like how could you keep that a secret from me you’ll keep anything a secret . So I told him some guy got hired at my job ((again he thinks I’m cheating on him so I have to tell him shit like that because if he comes to my job and see a guy he’ll think I’m doing something with him)) and then the very next argument was him saying I’m starting to act different is it because of this guy a work . I’m fucking him . I’m a whore etc. then when I say I’m about to stop telling you shit cause you take it and turn everything into a argument he’ll say see you can hide shit from me that’s how I know you’ll go get fucked and not tell me . months ago in the summer we was in our apartment complex parking lot and I seen a guy I think I recognized from ELEMENTARY SCHOOL ! told my boyfriend “hey, I think I know him from elementary school” and guess what!!! Now he thinks I’m fucking him. He told me he caught me in a lie because he asked me before if I knew anyone out here and I told him no , but I think I know the dude from elementary. I said for one it’s from ELEMENTARY SCHOOL . I’m not 100% sure that’s him . For 2 I’ve seen them like 3 times in my whole almost 3 years of living out here so they’re not going to cross my mind when you ask me a question like that especially if I wasn’t 100% if that was them . So basically I “lied” to him and he started calling me whores and stuff because it just didn’t make sense to him and I must be fucking him .. another argument was a while back a girl sent me messages of her and him texting and she caught a Lyft to his house at night . He hid this girls phone number under a different name and he told me he was using her to get some type of information out of her about another individual he didn’t like . Would y’all believe that??? so I told him if another man sent you messages of me and him texting and having proof that I went to his house at night and I came back and told you it was because I was using him for something and didn’t do anything with him would you believe me . He said yes !!!? No tf he wouldn’t . And another one (this was all from THIS MORNING) he used to work at the job I work at now . He says he knows someone in there and they tell him info about me like who I’m talking to and etc . So now that we arguing he’s like “most of the girls at that job wanted to fuck me on my soul, they was on my dick” but he never told me any until now while we are arguing ??!? 🥴 lol this isn’t the first time he said this either . He never comes to me and say “hey babe some girl tried to talk to me” he always wait until we argue. So I ask him if I kept things like that from you and waited until there was an argument to say things like that you’ll swear up and down how I’m a liar and I can hide things from you and I’m probably fucking around ..

I feel like I’m in such a childish relationship. And I honestly think something’s wrong with him . He literally starts shit then plays victim . He literally be telling me he HEARD me otp with someone when I wasn’t otp at all . 2 years ago I came on here and told y’all how he said he heard me and the kids in the house but he SEEN me walking down the steps with a target bag and said I must’ve hopped out the window and I explained more and you guys said he might be in psychosis . A lady that knows him told me he was diagnosed with bipolar but he said he was never diagnosed with that she don’t know what he’s stalking about . But I’m telling you SOMETHINGS NOW RIGHT WITH HIM . One of his grandmas tell me something’s wrong with him . He was at a mental side in prison but said he faked his symptoms because it gave him a better chance of coming home when he’s on the mental side vs a regular side .. idk but I just know he has something and he’s not willing to get help he thinks nothings wrong with him . And one more things I have to bring up . During and argument he said my mom isn’t “official” and his mom is because he can tell his mom if he did some bad shit (like rob someone or anything dealing with his sex life) but if he left some money around her she might take a little bit . I can’t tell my mom anything like that ( because we don’t have that type of relationship ) But I can leave any amount of money around my mom and nothing will come up missing ?!! Which mom would you rather be around his mom or my mom