Okay so my partner is always bitching about me not giving him bjs (the taste of a penis makes me sick and i hate the hair) and not being interested in sex. To give you a bit of background we have two sons one is one and the other is a month old. He sits around doing nothing all day while I look after both the boys and do all the cleaning. By the end of the day I'm in agony, stressed and exhausted. Does anyone have any tips on what I can do to either get him to shut up or what i can do to be more into sex???