My anxiety is through the roof

Bf of 4 yrs can not keep a job and is too lazy to get off his ass to apply. It’s been a month since he lost his last job in a month he’s had 2 interviews. He’s waiting for one job for his background check but it’s been over 2 weeks. He hasn’t called to check the status because he’s up til 5 am playing video games with his friends , I’m pregnant with our 2nd child and seriously looking into an abortion I’m always busting my ass for us and he can’t even be a decent human to keep the house clean and be productive. He’s telling me I need to motivate him to do better he wants to go to school next month & it’s out of pocket and asked me what to do because he doesn’t have a job basically saying he wants me to pay for it but I have to stay on him about school so he doesn’t lose motivation 🥴. Everything I do he always has something to say . I feel used I haven’t been happy in the last two years and I’ve tried sticking with him through everything but I’m just tired of being the only one trying all the time . We haven’t had sex in 3 months ( when I got pregnant) and I hate coming home because I hate hearing him talk about tik tok and shit I just don’t care about .