Am i over reacting or not?

So today is my birthday my s/o and i usually will say our happy birthdays at midnight to eachother since we are usually up late, however around 11:30 the kids were put to sleep and i was trying to have a little alone time watching a movie plus at midnight it will had been my birthday. So he decides to stay in the room seperated instead of laying up with me, so around midnight i got a few calls from friends saying hbd. Hour later he sends me a text instead of coming into room and saying hbd to me with a kiss or something! instead he just sent a text saying happy birthday!! idk it made me feel some type of way am i overreacting or is he wrong for that? Do your s/o tell you hbd or sends a text BEING IN THE SAME HOUSEHOLD