Hate me if you want but… aesthetic takes away all the joy of planing a birthday party for a 3 year old. All my daughters wants is a frozen fever birthday. She wants the sunflowers and Anna and Elsa.

We were seeing inspiration on Pinterest TikTok and they are so muted colors. At one point she asked “where is Anna?” I rewatched the video and not a single Anna or Elsa not even Olaf.

The same thing with other themes.

Toy Story, muted colors

Spider man, it looks like if the decor was left in the sun for days.

Scooby doo, not a single scooby, nice 70’s theme. Where is the gang!?

It might just be me, I lived rented homes that it had to be all white walls and tan carpets. The color was in our bedsheets. My home is not the most colorful but it’s not tan or grey. I just don’t want aesthetic stuff for a 3 year old who is looking for Anna on the decorations. I WANT THE TACKY STUFF.