I get it. We have to work work work all the time. But Jesus my husband and I never have time for each other and if we do, something happens and life gets in the way. I got off early-ish tonight and we haven’t had any intimacy in almost a week. We have a toddler in the other bedroom who’s getting sick again. I can’t count how many times we’ve all been sick the past few months, it’s insane and I’m SO tired of this. So my son keeps waking up crying, then my husband’s tummy is acting up and we finally have a minute to talk in our room and it ends up an argument. I’m fucking EXHAUSTED, I know my husband is. Our son keeps crying as soon as he’s finally asleep and we leave his room. My husband started his new job last week and so did I and it’s great and all but at the end of the day, there’s no time for US. I just want to cry. I start expressing my frustration and my husband says “i want you, but this attitude is difficult..” like FUCK OFF im allowed to be fucking frustrated and i just went off. Like im not allowed to have angry feelings that there’s zero romance in our marriage or what? Am i supposed to be a fucking stepford and shut up and smile when I’m angry inside? I don’t know what to do and I feel like I’m losing it quickly. No I don’t want to hire fucking help or send my child to daycare, but I just want to have a bit of a life. A fucking break from sickness for ONE WEEK, some intimacy time maybe and feeling like a priority?? Whatever that means.