With my mom is destroying my inner peace. I do know my mother has narcissistic traits and her falling out with her own Mother for the past 25 years is a direct reflection that she’s mirroring the same behavior. She knows I’m happy married woman and mother but seems to still pick on me. She has made antisemitic comments about my in-laws and my kids because she believes my FIL is Jewish. Even though she’s got no facts. When I was dating my husband, and she never had met him she accused him lying of his profession. And everywhere she goes, something happens to her, plays the victim.

She’s overall a very judgmental, unhappy person inside and it drains me to be around her, she sucks all the good energy out of me. She’s moody and changes her mind constantly. She also blames it of her thyroid disease. I don’t trust her to watch my kids and since I became a mom myself. I started to see the flaws. I love her because she’s my mom and it has felt like for so long I’ve been trying so hard to have a good, close relationship with her only to realize that all of that has gone to shreds because she’s got to put her judgmental,negative spin to everything. And before she left my house after a visit a month ago, we hugged and kissed and the next day I get the silent treatment because her overthinking of something that offended her started to kick in. I mean are mother’s love with many conditions like mine???