Need a lipstick shade recommendation!

Hello everyone, i am asking this cause all of the lipstick i have makes my cheeks look so red! i’m someone who is quite clueless about make ups, and has been a boyish girl since i was little but i want to change… bought some lipsticks but they kinda emphasised my cheeks and make them look even more red. anyone has a shade recommendation?

just a little info:

i’m an asian girl with pale skin and red cheeks. those cheeks are extremely red during summer and winter.

i think i always look so bad in photos, especially after i wear lipsticks, my cheeks look even more red in photos.

thank you!