Idk how to feel?!

Question

Hey ladies so I had to have a cervical cerclage done I'm currently 24 weeks pregnant which means I can't have sex orgasms etc. and I recently caught my husband jacking off to porn, but idk if I should be mad or sad with him. I have tried so hard to avoid any sexual contact but its hard but seeing do all of that without me.

Answer

He’s respecting that you can’t get aroused. He’s taking care of himself. 
It sucks not being able to partake but there’s no reason to be sad or mad about towards him. You can be upset with your situation and feel left out but don’t take it out on him. It sucks, I know. 
I had a cerclage in both pregnancies. I encouraged my husband to do what he needed. It was all tough. My main focus was keeping my babies inside of me.

Answer

I don’t think it’s unreasonable at all to feel hurt, especially if neither of you usually watches porn. I know some people view porn as cheating while others don’t have a problem with it at all. I think it depends completely on your relationship and both of your boundaries. 
If I were in your shoes, I think I would feel sad and disappointed that I was ‘left out’ especially when my body would be doing all the work of carrying a baby. From my perspective, the least he could do is try to include you rather than hiding it. I would try to have an open conversation with him about it so that both of your needs are met and no one has to get hurt further. I hope everything goes well ❤️

Idk how to feel?!

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