Dating advice (talking stage)

I need your opinion ladies 😔

I met a guy back in February I was very attracted to him & decided to give him my # he set up our first date 3 days later I was very clear that I was newly separated & just wanted to live life we went on a couple dates after that, would text here & there nothing was ever physical it was all a friendship we’d see eachother at the bars/clubs last month he admitted his feelings towards me I also told him I was catching feelings but wanted to take things slow since i did see a few red flags in him. A day before his bday he set up a date to a hotel I knew it would things would turn physical that night & it did, the day after was his bday we texted all day everything was ok! a few of my girlfriends invited me to the bar that night so I decided to go he ended up showing up & literally ghosted me as if I didn’t exist that night! This wasn’t normal behavior of his since we would see each other at these places a lot! I gave him his space since I had NO clue what I did to him I decided to text him a couple days later asking what was wrong & got no response I was HURT y’all, I’ve had a few one night stands but this 1 was different since we were actually taking things serious a few weeks later I came across his friend & asked him what was wrong he ended up telling me that the guy I was seeing was hurt because I was at the bar & didn’t tell him?? I’m left confused & hurt we weren’t dating so now I’m left confused & have been feeling guilty ever since I haven’t texted him I’ve came across him a few times & he’ll just give me a dirty look as if I did something horrible to him?

Was I wrong?