Things are not good in the marriage right now and I keep having these dreams

I've tried everything in my marriage but have some to the conclusion that my husband is just verbally and emotionally abusive and for whatever reason he won't tell me, he isn't happy but won't admit it so he makes my life hell. He won't discuss why he's mad just treats me horribly and he won't go back to therapy and he won't apologize or do anything to fix it. I'm trying to figure out a plan.

For a long time now I keep having so many dreams about being with someone else and they treat me so nice and we are in love and it feels SO real every time , like that feeling in a relationship with you are first in love and things feel so perfect. I have these dreams so often I'm wondering if it's just my brain trying to make up for how bad I'm feeling all the time ? Has anyone experienced this ? It feels SO real that when I wake up I feel heartbroken.