Hello guys,

Honest opinion needed here.

Backstory... I broke up with my ex partner this early Feb. We recently reconnected this early June. Things were going fine as we had reconnected... however, one night he asked me if I got checked. I was totally taken aback because he would think of me like this knowing my faith is important to me and I've never been a girl to run to guys. I explained how I felt to him in the conversation, and he replied, "well we are adults." Seemingly normalizing it to me. Which did not sit well with me.

The next day he asked to see my FB, I showed it to him with no problem. Even allowed him to hold my phone as he scrolled my page and fb messenger. We got dinner then came back to my room. I asked him to see his phone, as he was taking out his phone, I immediately went over to sit next to him on the couch. That is when I see him delete Instagram. He said it was his sister's account and he only used it so he can see if I had a account. I told him, "ok fine, just download it again and log back in so I can see." He said he doesn't know the info login, I said just ask your sister again. He said it's embarrassing. Basically I didn't get to see his phone that night. This is when things turned left. The next day he said a girl approached him at the carwash recently and she was talking to him a lot and gave him the #...

I began to loose trust and texted him asking if he had slept with anyone, he continuously said no. But I don't believe him and asked him to get a lie detector test so i can know the truth. Because I cannot return to him or be with him again knowing he slept with someone else. (Yes I know we were apart but that's a no no for me)

He denied the lie detector test and has been saying trust me, I didn't. Just trust me, let's move on. I didn't. Trust me. Saying it's weird and dumb.

I explained how this is the only thing that can give me assurance and move forward with him.. If what you're saying is the truth then why wouldn't you do it. You have nothing to hide right.

So guys, would you take the test knowing it was the only thing to save the relationship or move forward with it? And why wouldn't you take it? Do you believe he is lying and actually did sleep with someone while we were apart?