Am I wrong?

My husband and I went through our first miscarriage Mother’s Day this year. Obviously it has been difficult but we are getting through. My husband brought up what he was planning on getting for his next tattoo and it has a part for our two children we have and he said he planned to add to it for every child we have. I asked why he wasn’t including our daughter that we just lost and he said he was only including the children we actually had. Am I wrong for being upset here? I feel so alone, like everyone is moving on yet I’m the only one who refuses to act like it didn’t happen. It’s not just my husband, my family tenses up and changes subject any time her name is mentioned. Has anyone else gone through this or have any advice? Thanks in advance.