I met a guy on hinge a couple weeks ago and we went on a date which went really well. He seemed super interested in me and then after the date we made out in the car for about an hour. The next night he invited me over to his place and we had two rounds of sex (45 mins each time and he came twice). We were suppose to hang out on the Fourth of July and go to the beach and he ended up canceling on me because he said he had to work late. He texted me the next day asking how my day went and then told me he had gone to the beach. That same night he told me I was welcome to come over but since my car was having issues, he offered to drive 30 mins to pick me up. When I got to his place he cooked for me since it was already late which I thought was a sweet gesture.

After dinner, I went to use the bathroom and found out that I had just gotten my period and let him know right away. He told me he didn’t care and even though I told him that I didn’t want to make a mess on his bed, he just went right into having sex with me without even putting anything down. Afterwards, we both realized that I had made a huge blood stain on his sheets and he was really understanding and sweet about it. I left the next morning but noticed he was being kind of quiet and acting a little distant.

I said bye and we kissed but I had a feeling something was off. ( also forgot to mention that I found a travel size women’s sunscreen, mini concealer in his bathroom that night. And also some women’s sunglasses near his bed)

So obviously he had just had a girl over before me. I kind of had a feeling that maybe they had gone to the beach together either on the Fourth of July or the day he saw me which kind of hurt because it made me feel like the second option but I know he’s single and we aren’t in a relationship so I can’t complain. When I was on my way home I realized I had left my bracelet in his room. The next day I noticed he had unfollowed me on instagram, so I took this as him being uninterested in me and just sent him a quick text asking to pick up my bracelet sometime soon. He replied “ yes of course!” And then I never really got back to him and this was about a week ago. Then today I randomly get a text from him saying “ lmk when you’d like to pick it up :) and how are you doing ? “

Does it seem like he is still interested? And why do you think he would unfollow me ?

It sucks because the sex was amazing so I feel confused by all these mixed signals. I don’t think the unfollow is an accident.