Discouraged

How do you stay positive after trying for so long with no luck😔 it’s only been 6 months but it feels so much longer and I don’t know how much longer of feeling this way every month I can take. Does anyone have any tips on how not to feel so sad every month? Trying isn’t fun any or I struggle to because I know it’s not going to work yet again… my other pregnancies were conceived on the first try so this is very unusual for me. I’m tracking everything, I’ve got bloods booked to see if there’s an issue but I’m not very hopeful. I’m 8-9dpo today and I’ve got cramps so I know it’s my period coming even though it’s still early it’s the same pattern every month.