When we argue

When my bf and I have an argument, we are so different afterwards. I get over things pretty easily. Unless he did something terrible to me, like if he ever cheated on me or something, then I would be upset for a very long time. But our little arguments that are rare, i get over it fast.

He does not. He will act weird for a week or longer. He barely talks to me or acts like he wants to be around me.

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Mo

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In a relationship resolving issues is about getting through it, not getting over it. I would check with him to make sure that things are resolved from his perspective. And if not, continue to get through it together. 

le

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Sounds like he holds a grudge

le

le • Jul 19
Maybe he feels like things don’t get completely resolved so it takes him more time to process and get over it