Y’all I dated this man for about 4 months and I know I tend to give up easily on people sometimes, but I really feel like this isn’t the one. He’s very impatient with me, seems to lack empathy (in the middle of me crying from a death in the family, he asked me a question about a celebrity I met!), he’s a smart a$$ and an a$$hole all the time. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells and always watching what I’m saying. His tone is always smart a$$ sounding and he makes me cringe all day. If I ask him to repeat something, several times he has spelled the words out slowly like I’m dumb. I don’t feel like I can live with or even be with this man at all. He even disrespected an elderly man and punched the man’s car while we were out one day walking. We are both in our early 30s. Is this flaws that you all would accept in a man? Am I tripping or get rid of him?