Went for my 20 week US yesterday and said very specifically we don’t want to know gender so please don’t say he or she or him/her. US tech said oh I just say baby…literally 2 min later she said “baby is in a good position to take a look at him”. I’m really upset that she may have ruined our surprise. This is my last pregnancy and I really didn’t want to know. Would you believe what she said to be the gender or do US techs just say one sex without actually referring to the real gender.