I’m thinking of giving my boyfriend an ultimatum but I don’t want it to look like one.

We’ve been staying together for over 3 years now but I think he’s gotten used to living together that taking next steps doesn’t seem like a big deal now. We’ve discussed this before but his responses are most vague. I get nothing from our conversations.

While I’ve patiently waited for him to raise up this issue I feel like I’m the only one worrying about this. So I’ve decided that it’s better for me to get my own space and be able to explore myself more and rewire my mind because I feel like I can be waiting forever. I know he’s gonna feel devastated or feel some type of way about it but at this point I feel like I have to think about me first. I can’t be playing wife on a gf budget if you get what I mean 🤓

Any thoughts???