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Need advice for friend

She doesn't have this app and loves answers some ladies help her wig when I ask so I said I'd ask you girls..

Ok she is a Christian a sweet women very giving and honest she's my BFF!! Love her she is going threw chemo she married the love of her life who has a child with another women who is a druggie and not well..

Her name is Amanda sweet kid I love her and my BFF and her hubby has two together she fought with her for full custody and how she can have her once a month for a weekend..

Mind you they lived three states from us she still does this trip for her and her mom!

This family in the other state is drama all drama they are very hostel 24/7 ..

My friend takes care of this girl who isn't hers and loves her as her own..

Her mother is pregnant again! With twins and lost custody of Amanda and the other two are acting out as is and she already has child services on her!

This time she is due with twins which brings all kids to a grand total of 5 all with different dads.

Here is a bit of what happens I can't show everything it's just the hostel way they come at her for anything that is sweet..

If anyone here has read this post its one that's viral it's very touching and sweet and not rude at all!

That person being rude is the mothers bf who knocked her up he didn't even read it and was all rude instead why not read stuff then say something.. He did apologize yes!

But the problem is the wife is worse always mad and hostel because she's with her ex my friends dad.

And how Amanda is here in our state and needs to be with her..

But when they go visit to see her real mom she only sees her mom for an hour then she leaves..

I dunno about you ladies but if your child was three states away and came to visit for three whole days wouldn't you be there from day one till she or he leaves?

She doesn't know what to do she's sad that she's always rude to her and isn't calling her daughter doesn't care for her or give her any attention at all..

All this child wants is her mom to love her.

I just feel bad and my friend is clueless as to what to do.. She has her on her Facebook to see Amanda grow and do things just to be nice but she's so dam rude! Sorry this is so long but as a family there doing all they can..