What motivates you?

What motivates you to do important things that needs to get done for example if you have a huge pile of laundry to fold. If you have a huge mess to organize for example seasonal clothes to store, there's things to organize and clean what would you do for example if you had a responsibility to find a job, to get your driver's license or renew your license, purchase car and insurance how would you get your mind to be relaxed about what needs to get done for example if you had a husband who was sole provider that passed away and now it's your responsibility to get a job and you move into a house that is work you have to clean it get it fixed up and you have your stuff to sort out boxes and to buy new furniture pay for repairs find new school enroll children, find a job, find a car go to get your license and it's so many responsibility and people counting on you I wanted to ask what gets you out of bed and motivated how do you get up and start working what are ways to handle stress if there's too much to do think about stress how do you help yourself as a person become organize and happy.