Me and my husband found out after 2 years of ttc that we were going to be parents at almost 37and 38 yo. Unfortunately God had other plans for us. We were able enjoy this bliss for 21weeks and 6 days. Yesterday at my 24 week and 2 days appointment, they couldn't find his heartbeat. We aren't going to give up just because of this. As soon as we are able to ttc again, we will and one day we will a baby boy or girl and she or he will know about his or her big older brother Brandon Lee Selders. God had a reason to put him in a better world than this. God will give us another child to love but not to replace him with.