Almost 11 month old wake ups constant throughout the night

Ti

Since birth she has been an awful sleeper. I mostly coslept for the first half of her life because she just would not sleep on her own for longer than 15 minutes. Anyway, long story short, she wakes up every 3 hours by crying, and when you try to console it turns into screaming. Husband said to give her a bottle. Well now she is expecting a bottle all throughout the night when she wakes. He works all day, hes tired. He just wants a quick fix so I cant sleeptrain. Idk what to do. I tried to put less in the bottle but she knows!!! She will yell and cry after finishing. These every 3hr feeds arent the only wake ups. There are others too where I can give her a pacifier and help sooth her back to sleep while in her crib. Sometimes I take her out and lay in my bed while I hold her til she falls asleep and then put her back in the crib. Not sure what to do here. She is SO vocal. I'm getting mixed information. Peds doc says she should NOT be getting fed at night. He said feed her more solids during daytime. Lol I do! I literally started feeding her til she gagged. It does nothing. She gets cereals and oatmeals before bed in hopes that she will be nice and full. NOPE! Then there are others that just say feed her. If she is hungry, feed. Any tips? I have done the ferber method. Its usually the go to when its time for bed or naps sometimes. But we live in a small place and my 9 year old needs his sleep, and my husband too. Crying it out just doesnt work with this girl....its loud... idk this is probably more meant to be a rant/get off my chest thing. I hope she grows out of it. My son was an AMAZING sleeper. Kid was sleeping through nights literally the week I was still in the hospital after having him (nurses were angry with me that I wasnt waking him to feed).