Struggling with intamacy: my journey with sexual detachment

Hello everyone,

I’m 24 years old, and I lost my virginity at 18. However, since I turned 21, sex has started to feel more like a chore, and I find myself feeling emotionally detached. I struggle to get aroused and often feel like something is wrong with me.

When I speak with other women, they seem to genuinely enjoy sex, and it doesn't appear to be burdensome for them. I want to be intimate with my boyfriend, but mentally, I just don’t feel present anymore.

Any advice and is this normal