We still go out, we have fun. But the communication and vibe has changed to me. This all could be from me being anxious. For the. Most part. We get along. Other than small arguments, then 5-10 later we are fine. He sent me a message last week that still bothers me. I feel like it put me into a fight or flight and made me anxious. I always tell him if we have an issues or if I’m irritating you let me know. I pick up on things and also overthink as well. When I have an issue, I tell him. But he doesn’t tell me. So bacisllg he just let everyone build up and sent me a message saying im always irritable. Which, I told him I would work on. That does come from us not being how we use to. He use to call me way more, call me when I get off, but doesn’t anymore. Which that is a big thing because we stay 1.5 hours away from each other and only see reach other on the weekend. We tried to make a tradition of seeing each other on Tuesdays, but it didn’t stick. He said it’s already hard that we don’t stay in the same state and the arguments don’t help, but stated he does like me just I need to work on me being irritable. Which I do know that and took ownership. Since the message he sent, I just don’t trust him. And now it’s putting another strain.i feel as though he was so fed up with me when he sent that message that he probably doesn’t even want to be with me anymore. Plus, he is dealing with a death in the family and I’m really not trying to be a bother.