Am I delusional or is he leading me on?

So I’m 20 and pregnant by a guy (30) I knew for only a month. We’re technically strangers to one another, and he likes to say that we were never dating even tho he told me we were during this time and also was staying at my house from the time he got off work until he had to go in again for 2 weeks straight but okay.

He told me lastnight that I was delusional when I told him I loved him and he said that’s just crazy how can u love someone u don’t even know. He said it’s crazy that I even wanna keep a baby by a stranger but promises to be there and do right by us. I told him that was all I needed to hear and to stop stringing me along. I told him I never wanted to speak to him again.

Later we had sex that he initiated and I said why do you have sex with me if we will never be anything like you say? He told me it’s because I told him I’d never speak to him again.

I feel that he’s manipulating me. He told me he would be in a relationship with me but now he’s saying he would never do that and we’ll never be anything because I “ruined that” and because I’m 20. He gets sensitive when I say never speak to me again and I’ll raise my child alone but strings me along with sex.

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Ma

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Why do you continue to have sex with him then?

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He's not stringing you along with sex. He's a man. They can have sex with no attachment better than women can. He doesn't want to be with you. Stop hanging out in your house, alone. Stop hanging out unless it's about baby (doctor appointments, shopping for baby, etc). Just become friends and have boundaries for yourself and so baby isn't born into confusion and drama.

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🦋 • Aug 26, 2024
Also play it cool. Just stop inviting him over, stop asking him questions about relationship stuff, and just start the journey into figuring out parenthood.