About my virginity

Girls, pardon me if this is not the right commmunity go share my story, but i do not know of any community to discuss this.

I'm 26 and a virgin. I never had any intimacy with anyone before marriage, but now that I'm recently married, there's been no sign of blood. I understand this is an outdated concept, but I don't trust my husband's mindset, and I'm scared of being accused of something because of the religious community I belong to. Is this common? Could it be because I enjoyed it? I can't accept going through a dry, traumatizing experience just to prove something, and this is a really difficult situation for me.

Please i want to know your opinions and your experience with virginity blood