Do I have every right to be upset about this

Anahi

Hey everyone idk how to start this but here it goes . So on Friday aug 30, 2024 was my boyfriends birthday right so he was going out n I had told him that I as gonna go with him so I got in his truck a quick reminder we always celebrate his birthday together all the time for the 3 years we’ve been together but anyway back to the point he told me no to get out his truck n he told me it was bc i don’t have any money to spend on him I didn’t even spend any time with him before cause he went and got a hair cut before coming home then showed then left right after he went to hang with one of his friends but then after that friends house he went to another’s but the thing is that

That friend has a sister that my man had been best friend with so he was out with her to and ofc I got up set about it bc I’ve done told him that if I can’t have guy friends why can he have girl friends

Then if I tell him if it was the other way around that he would just if left me when he found out n his response was yes . So why is it ok for him to do it every time I try talking to him about to he just gets mad n tells me to shut up