I have 2 sisters

• Francesca is 32 and she has 2 kids 5 year old & a 2

• Jamie is 27 with 3 kids 6 year old twins & a 2 year old

• me 25 with a 11 month old

I adore my child. But before I had my baby I was a full time fun aunt. Weekends , pickups from school, I’d volunteer at the schools ,birthday party set ups , buy pizza for the soccer team you name it every thing a mom did I DID IT EVEN BIGGER. All the love I had I absolutely poured it in to my niece and nephews.

A week ago my sister hosted a play date and lunch at her house which is normal for us. My sisters were complaint that school is coming up and it’s hard to get back in the routine of getting the kids ready in the morning and bedtimes are gonna be a handful. I was holding my baby when my sister turned to my daughter and cooed” when you get older your mommy is gonna have her hands full with you and your siblings “

Thinking we’re joking I said a quote I heard “ 1 is an accessory 2 is a life style “ and said that I had my tubes tied after her my husband and I only want 1.

It’s got quiet..like a girl wtf moment

My sister Jamie said that being a parent isn’t all sunshine and lollipops it’s hard when you have more than 1 kid who needs attention. And she’s not getting the same help like she used too. Her tone was soooo bitchy

So i retuned the favor. I absolutely love my nieces and nephews because privately my husband and I struggled to have this baby for 2 years.In my head and heard those’d kids were my kids on the weekends.so yes I did everything I did so much my sister Francesca went back to school and graduated my sister Jamie got a part time job. I carried the weight of being a parent for nearly 6 years I never asked for a dollar to fund any activity I did with the kids.

I told my sister everything I’ve done for them up to the week I gave birth (her son had to be picked up from school). I was told that I shouldn’t rub that in their faces and I’m an aunt it’s expected to help each other out. When my daughter had a cold I asked if one of them can drop off pedialyte and some soup from Panera cause I didn’t want to bring her outside. No one came. We live a mile apart

I told them that I don’t wanna fight or argue with them and started to pack up my things to head out I felt like they ganged up on me and made me out to be the bad guy. I’ve learned that I don’t need to have people like that in my life so I decided to go no contact for a bit just to have a peace of mind