What would you do

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So my long time boyfriend and child father who I live with stays out all night like 4am and I have his location so I know where he is but still he will stay out all night go to bars and clubs and also stay at his moms house for 2-3 days leaving me with the kids. No calls or anything just updates through text. He will use the excuse of he doesn’t have a car so that’s why his hours are late etc. but I’m always alone doing everything for everybody and nothing for myself and I’m so tired of saying it that I honestly might not even say anything when he walks in again in the middle of the night I don’t have any arguing left in me I just want to be respected

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He lives as if he’s single because you’ve been allowing it. Honestly if he doesn’t have a car he  really shouldn’t be spending so much time hanging out. He has a woman and children he needs to be working more than anything to provide for his family. He still has a little boy mentality. Honestly if I were you I’d leave the relationship and better myself & the right man will eventually come along to be the MAN you and your children needs

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Maybe it’s time to respect yourself and leave.

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I would let him stay at his mom's permanently.

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How much is he spending while at these bars as that’s money that could go towards the family or even saving up for a car. 
I cannot believe his mother tolerates that type of behaviour from her adult son who is married and has kids he is responsible for. 
You need to have a serious chat about this as it’s not normal behaviour for a husband and father to be so careless and so selfish. 
Good luck with the chat and I hope things improve for you and your children’s sake. 
Maybe even look into marriage counseling.

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You’re already living like a single parent. Make it official so you don’t have to deal with that deadbeat.

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So do something about it then. It isn’t going to change if you keep allowing it. You and the kids deserve better

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This might be what u want to hear ,but either talk to him about it or leave him ,being a mother is hard but doing it alone is harder ,u don’t want him to be present and not even helping out with the kids for all that he can not be present ,it gets exhausting but unfortunately u still have to keep going as a mother ,talk with him and if nothing changes then leave .

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