Am I wrong or is she just crazy?
Idk what to think or how to feel about this. I’m 22 and have a “cousin” (mom’s best friend’s daughter- 22) that I grew up with and reconnected with a couple years ago. At first it started off great, we bonded over going through similar situations. But, especially now that it’s over, I realize it really wasn’t that great. She didn’t work or drive so if I wanted to hangout with her while I was still saving for a car, I had to pay for her Ubers. She also asked to borrow money. I even felt one time that she only asked to come over so that I could Uber her back to her boyfriend’s from her friend’s house. I also had to pay if we wanted to do anything or drink. One time I said no and she said “it’s only $20. You don’t have $20?”. On my 21st, we hung out with her dad’s friend (late 40s). She hit on me (WHILE ENGAGED) and they did drugs together and I had to take care of her. She also was really clingy and would blow my phone up if I didn’t answer in under. Then we stopped talking because she was upset I wanted to stay home with my kids when she had this man drive to my house.
We recently reconnected and I was just trying to check on her. Then she randomly ghosted me in a simple conversation for weeks. I texted her number and was like “wtf? If I did that to you you’d freak”. She texted me back and called me insane bc I endanger my kids and she only talked to me because i guilted her. She’s talking about how this guy SA’ed me 5MONTHS AGO and then broke up with me and I was going through feelings. The “guilt” is literally that I told her I ended things with him and was working on myself because she almost ended our friendship over it. I also think she’s being hypocritical. She keeps accusing me of being an alcoholic but her story shows alcohol all the time. She also has gone through at least 4 abusive relationships and is currently dating a guy she “stole l from her friend. I’m currently single, have my kids 24/7/365, and don’t drink literally ever…
She keeps telling me “maybe we can reconnect in the future but not right now because I don’t have the capacity for that”. I would get if she said we just grew apart but I hate that all of a sudden she has this high horse and is trying to belittle me for no reason ??
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