My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. Our sex life has drastically changed since the beginning of 2024. We maybe have sex every couple weeks or so. When we do have sex he finishes super quick (I get it because of how long in between times) but I’m never sexually satisfied at first..

when we first got married I was 100% satisfied with only him finishing, but honestly now things feel so dry and boring… we don’t kiss or make out, it’s like he just wants to stick it in, finish, and be done. I’ve talked to him about this, mentioned I feel lonely and essentially disconnect emotionally. It’s not changed. We hardly cuddle or kiss. We’ve been arguing frequently because I just feel so unsatisfied with our marriage and all. I guess my question is, what do I do? Is there a better way to go about it?

I find myself now having sexual dreams where the guy is making out with me and making me feel sexy and attractive. Sex is important to me, I very much enjoy it. I don’t expect it 10 times in one week, but at least twice a week having passionate sex would be nice… idk what to do, I’ve told him, but there is no change. It sounds insane, but I’ve considered ending our marriage over it… I do love him, but I NEED sex, I need to feel wanted and attractive…