I’m stupid. I have a wedding tomorrow and I want to wear earrings. One of my ears is fine but the other one always closes. It’s been months since I’ve had earrings in. I lubed them up with neosporin and stretched it out a couple times warming it between my fingers. The earring went halfway in and then I applied pressure and after a lot of pressure I felt it go in. It definitely ripped through the skin and now I’m worried I’m gonna wake up with a swollen ear. It’s fine now just throbbing a little bit. Is this normal?