Need advice or words of wisdom
Hello so long story short i dont get along with my in laws. Evedything was going alright but i finally snapped a couple months ago after staying quiet for about a year. And pretty much the whole family went against me. Which i sort of expercted. Anyways so now about 6 months have passed and i dont let them see my daughter. I dont think theyre bad people but when i first met my bf, they all judged me so bad and talked so much shit about me. I gave them a chance anyways because i got pregnant quick and they were gonna be my daughters family too. And things were going good until we moved in with them after i had my baby because we had so many issues finally as well. And well i really got to know them and i was going thru postpartum. I guess i realized theyre pretty much the same people they were when i met them and the shit talking behind my back staryed again. And well weve moved out and things have been better but me and my bf have this fight because he wants them to see our daughter but i dont. His mom still talks shit about me to this day and i just feel like why would i trisy u around my daughter and u cant even respect the mom. Ofcourse they "loved" me when is stayed quiet but when i had enough of their shit, then they dont like me because apparently i showed them who i really was. I fell like growung up in a toxic home just makes me not want my daughter to be around all that. I told my bf that yes rn shes a cute baby but as she grows up whos to say they wont judge her and talk shit about her like they did me. I dont think theyre bad people but i paid attention to how they are and how they handle shit and it just makes me want to protect my daughter. My bf brings up the argument that he forgave my familytoo and lets them see my daughter and that his paremts have done so much for me, which im not denying any of it... but i feel like my family doesnt even feel comfortable talking bad about him to me and they dont STILL talk shit about him to this day. His mom keeps doing it, the last thing she said about me is that i dont do nothing (im a stay at home mom), and also insinuating that im getting in his head about running his business (i dont). So am i wrong for not letting them see my daughter? He says she has done too much for me not to let them see her even once in a while, but a lot of the things she has done for us since we moved out is because HES the one thay reaches out for her help. Even when ive told him multiple times i dont want nothing from her anymore because it just gets thrown in our faces.... anyways if yall need more info ill give u more but i need so advice and some understanding. Because i feel bad sometimes because my mom gets to see my daughter but not his, but then i think about all the stuff she has done and im angry and hurt all over again.
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