My husband seems to at times put his mom before me. He was supposed to take me out for our wedding anniversary but his mom asked him to work on her car and he did that instead. His mom hates me and has made comments on my looks and my weight. My husband never says anything and tells me "Well she's my mom." Idk what my Mils deal is because she's not a boy mom. She honestly doesn't even seem to like my husband very much. She is very shitty towards him. When she gets mad at him she calls him a junkie because he's a recovering addict and my husband has told me the reason he did drugs was because of his mom. Trigger warning for SA but she and her brothers had trafficked him for money for a young age since he was 4. He told me his uncle's used to drug him before the abuse started and to take his power back he started drugging himself when he was 13. His mom has been the world's worst mom so I can't understand why he's up her ass and puts her before me at times and let's her disrespect me and us. His mom is even saying when we have kids she's gonna be in the delivery room whether I like it or not! She's awful and doesn't even treat him right. Never apologized and continues to shit on him. If this a trauma bond or is he genuinely a momma's boy.